小摩擦

在人海茫茫之中，

相识是一种奇妙的缘分。

两个不同背景的人能走在一起，

已经是一件非常幸福洋溢的事。

难免会有一些些不愉快的事情。

可是，

少见面摩擦是否会减少？

可能性比较渺小吧？

无论如何，还是会有一点点的小摩擦。

别无视这些“小摩擦”，

它会变成以后的绊脚石。

今天的“小摩擦”，很可能是未来的“导火线”。

Travel

.............................
Finally! It's Finally!
Wooohooooooooooo!
We've just booked the ticket to Hatyai, Thailand.
Although it is not the place that I wish to go but it's FUN to go with a bunch of friends.I guess!
The travel period is on 18th - 21th of June 2011.
Three months from today onwards.
Yet it is my semester break on the whole month of June.

How excited I am? 
Hohoho! I was extremely excited as I missed to join them to Krabi, Thailand last year.
Therefore, couldn't miss it this time seriously.
Lol...It's time to implement a saving plan for myself.
Everyone loves travelling, no exception for me too!
My cousin and I were planning to go Taiwan on Sept/Oct with our family.
Hope the happiness and excitement doesn't turn into disappointment. *Wish*


Yea! I quoted it as my "Graduation Trip" as well.
We're anticipated to the trip to Hatyai and Taiwan this year. 
"Hatyai" is a first ever trip that I am going with my loves one after a year plus. 
Although "Hatyai" was a replacement of our "Bali" trip as the Tsunami was just hits tremendously in Japan lately.
Hence, it's not recommended to go islands or beaches.
LoL..It's just my assumption to avoid everyone to approach those places. 


Well, the student life is finally come to an end after the four years of great education and effort.  
Hereby, I am sincerely being grateful and appreciative to all my Lecturer and my lovely classmates who being side by side to accomplish my studies throughout the years!
Lol..sounds like I was just Graduate.Hahahaha!
Still few month to go.But then I guess it's coming soon and sooner.
I was just can't wait for my graduation to come over. 

*I love to being anticipate sometimes, because you will never know how the story goes.

 There might be a blissful or sort of excitement which are indescribably by words. *

品德

偶然间，在博客上看见有这么的一段话，

“贪污虚荣是女人的天质”，

说的一点也没错，

这就是女人的天资吧！

我也不例外；别说你没有！

可能你觉得所谓的“贪污虚荣”

意味着贪图荣华富贵，驾名牌房车，享受无忧无虑，自由自在的生活，钱更是万能。

钱确实是万能，但别轻视别人得能力。

你手提名牌包包，穿得衣裳也是名牌，那又怎样？

这还不是意味着你是贪污虚荣之人吗？

谁不喜欢名牌啊？

我个人也喜欢极了！还看中很多款式呢，只是价钱很昂贵呀！

每个人都有一样的倾向，只不过看的是有没有品德而已。

有些人一身名牌却狗眼看人低，这就是你应有的品德吗？

那真是烂透了！

你再怎样富裕也别轻视别人呀。

别戴有色眼镜去观看别人，别讽刺，嘲笑他人。

自以为一副很了不起的模样，很高尚吗？

是不是你身穿名牌就比别人高尚了很多？

的确，以你的一身打扮是很高尚，

可惜你被大大扣分了。

所谓的一点点品德都没有。

身穿名牌也只是一个很亮眼的贝壳，可是里面确是烂透的。

做人凡是不要那么绝，留有一点余地吧！

非常好的一句话：“山水有相逢”。

可惜不是“你”

我受委屈，你撑着我；

我被欺负，你呵护我；

我遇挫折，你教诲我；

可惜不是“你”。

Rabbit Year 2011 Part 1

I hope it wasn't late for me to post New Year 2011 photos though it's just over!

Just a simple post will do!

Happy Rabbit Year to all of you.

Hereby wish everyone of you a prosperity year, may Gods of Wealthy, Healthy, Lucky,Wish, Relations, Career and ... visit all of you. 

May your wishes and hopes come true.

Happy Go Lucky 2011  ♥

Day 1 --- Gong Xi Fat Chai

Day 2 --- Baby's House ( Black Jack 21 )

Day 3 --- Mandy's Hut ( Black Jack 21 )

Day 4 --- Visit-ing Friends, Gang of Combo, Reunion Night ( Lou Sang )

Day 5 --- Pimary Friends Gathering @ Ashley's Hut

A hand-greeting of wishing a H.A.P.P.Y year of Rabbit ♥

Day 5 --- Open House @ Marcus House

The above picture shown from the Lunar Chinese New Year 2011 from Day 1 - Day 5.

I'm blessed that friends and family are surroundings me!

May the sweet, happiness and bless fulfilled your colorful days and years.

Love you all so much ♥

Thanks you! ;) ♥

Happy 1st Anniversary,Darling

♥ 30.01.10 --- 30.01.11 ♥

Happy 1st Anniversary to my precious one, Mr. Kwung.

Throughout the year,

I am glad that I have you to be with me all the time through the joy and pain!

Thanks for being here for me.

Thanks for everything!

 The Ring --- The Love likes a circle that never has an end!

 Happy Anniversary Baby ♥

 We hold each other!

 He loves chocolate fondue so much! ♥

 Enjoying the moment, You and Me.

You ♥ Me. I ♥ You

The Photo Album --- ♥ Contents 

*There are thanks and thanks, again thanks to you, Darling!*

遗失の自己

发觉，渐渐地迷失自我了,

还是，依然的那个我呢？

无时无刻都很在意别人的眼光，

不管是贬义的还是褒义的，

我都非常地在乎！

可是，这样的我并不开心。

为了满足、迁就、讨好别人，

让自己成为了别人的附属品。

这样的我觉得很累，

希望自己远离不必要的忧虑。

还是自由自在的做自己比较实在！

活出自我才是真正我渴望的！

♥ 加油! 加油! ♥

因为是兔年的关系，个人觉得可爱极了。

大家一起加油打气吧！

Words

I was paused for a while, that the words you gave me.

* Take a deep breathe *

I went deeply to its contents，

and figure it out that really meant to me!

If the day approaches us,

I really don't know what reaction I would have?

I guess it will be worse than any expectation.

By the ways, the words ♥ Appreciate ♥ that has been printed on my "Dictionaries"

which I think it's play a vital role in my life under any circumstances.

Try your best and place your strength to achieve everything that you wish to have.

A simple words may brings you laughter or happiness, 

reversely, a simple words may cause you dismay and disappointment too.

Therefore, please watch your words if you don't tend to hurt people.

If you're doing so, unless you're going to hurt the one you love. 

Because, you might not know the consequences of "wording" may cause.

Yet, misunderstanding, miscommunication  or conflict happened definitely because of the "words" that you gave to people. 

♥ My Artwork ! ♥

New Year Wish List

What do you desire on year 2011?
What's in your minds?
Ooops! There are so much things that I wish to get but I can't even list it down one by one!
Am I possible to get what I wish to get?
I think I am gona work hard, more hard and really hard though =)

My priority :
My Couple Rings! ( Of course! )

My Wish List :

1. Coach Bag ( Poppy or Madison preferred )
2. Charles and Keith's Wallet
3. Couple Rings
4. Family Trip ( Taiwan )
5. Combo Trip ( Islands Eg, Pulau Langkawi, Redang...)
6. Laneige Water Sleeping Pack_EX
7. Majolica Majorca Mascara
8. Maybeline Eye Studio Color Plush Silk Eyeshadow
9. Watch ( Casio , Guess GC, Seiko..etc)
10. I-phone 4
11. Levi's Curve ID Jeans - Demi Curve Skinny
12. Louis Vuitton Damier Ebene Canvas ( Speedy 25) or Damier Azur Canvas ( Speedy 25 )
13. Nike Sport Shoes (White colors)
14. Legging ( Even though I have one, but wana try others too!)
15. My own car ( Toyota Vios ) hope can get it the latest on year 2012?Lol..

* Attn : My bf write himself while he was seeing me blogging here! LoL..

Kwung's Wish List :

1. Bedroom Side Table (RM200-300)
2. Pillow (RM150)
3. Nitendo Wii/PS 3 (1k)
4. Perfume (RM50-RM100)
5. Karaoke System (1k-1.5k)
6. Curtain 3 Panel (RM50-80)
7. Plastic Specs (RM150)
8. Working Specs (RM200)  RM190!!
9. Coat (White & Black) (RM200-RM300)
10. Bold Tie (RM20-30)
11. Watch (Casual wear) (RM100-RM300)
12. DSLR (1.6k)
13. Vios/City/Swift/MYVI!! (50k-70k)
14. I-phone 4
15. Nike Shoe  (RM200)  RM170!!
16. Winter Cloths (RM300)
17. Sweater (RM150)  RM139.90!!
18. Luggage Bag (RM200-RM300)

It's attainable if you really wish to own the goods, 

as long as you pay more effort and work hard.

I believe "those" could make you smile and make your days too!

Happy New Year 2011

Awww...year 2011 is approaching and coming very soon within 24 hours I guess.

I can't believe it's coming to us so SOON!

Recall back the year of 2010,

there are so much of memories that played randomly in my mind.

I've done a lot of things with the love ones, friends, family and so fourth.

I'm here to Thanks everyone that has been nice to me throughout the year.

I'm really appreciate much from bottom of my heart.

Frankly speaking, I was realized that Christmas is all about forgiving.

*Sorry, I'm not Christian* ( But isn't too late to know,huh? ;) )

Christmas is a special occasion that forgiving of things and peoples.

Therefore, what if I've done something wrong or being unfaithful to you guys throughout the year,

please forgive and forget.

I'm here to apologized! 

And wish deeply that everyone has a great Happy New Year.

No matter how sweet, sour, bitter or spicy in your life,

how miserably/unfortunate you had in the year of 2010,

eventually everything comes to the end and start all over a brand new year!

Once again to say "Goodbye 2010, Welcoming 2011."

( Ohhhh..it's getting 1 years older =.=" )

Happy New Year 2011!

By : Lai Kuan, Rachel 

我想要的

世界上真的有心灵相通吗？

真的可以事事顺利吗？

有多少个情侣真的心灵相通呢？

我想机会很渺小吧！

有时候，

希望他能给我想要的，

明明知道不可能，

却还是抱着一丝丝的欲望，

最后，

还是希望落空。

有时候，

有些事情说了会影响感情，

但还是选择告诉，

因为不想憋着在心里

可是，

表达心意后又能怎样？

有时候，

明知道爱情并不牢靠，

但是还是拼命往里跳，

因为，

希望自己选的是对的人，

希望结局挂上完美的句号，

所以即使知道受了点伤，

还是傻傻的疗伤，

希望能快点复原，

再继续投入感情。

我对你坦白，

是因为我们的路还有很遥远，

而不是在埋怨或指责你，

但愿你明白我就好！

很多事情我们不能操制，

我们能控制的，

就是好好经营一段得来不易的感情。

“虽不知道是否还能在下一秒与你牵手，

珍惜当下所有就是最好不过了。”

明白

有时候，我真的不明白

放工以后，真的那么累吗？

连一封信息都没有更何况是一通电话？

是你习惯了一个人

还是我打扰你的世界呢？

只是一封信息或一通电话

就足以令我心满意足。

可是

你却让我一次又一次地失望，

我的心情又跌倒谷底了。

我明白，工作真的很忙碌，

可是

你是否明白我的感受呢？

忙碌也希望你问候，关心我，

而不是把我冷落一旁，

我想。。。

你从来就不会在乎。

一而再再而三地情况下，

令我逐渐习惯了。

因为

我对你不抱着任何的欲望了

我偶尔也会累了。

Love Like There Is No More Tomorrow

I read an article from one of my Facebook's friend list.

The sentence tempted me so much and I don't know why and I do paused for a second.

It was written as

 "Don't marry the person you think you can live with;

 marry only the individual you think you can't live without."

What's so interesting about the sentence?

Certainly, it was meaningful, wasn't it?

The first reaction I was like...Aww...It's so TRUE!

Marry a person that you can't live without is so romantic and love each other like there's no tomorrow.

But it's so subjective.

I believed there are peoples with different thoughts too.

Anyway, I just want to share with you guys!

For me, you can marry a person that can live happily together and surely he is the one and only who you can't live without.

It doesn't matter the person you can live with or can't live without as long as both of you are belongs together.

As long as you live happily with him;

As long as you love him more than yesterday;

Because...

"The most happiness things in life is to loved and be loved"

Hence, the matter of can live or can't live without is no longer important.

"Love each other like there is no more tomorrow;

 enjoy and treasure every seconds, minutes, and hours that we have."

Move on!

There are always thousand of excuses for a "break-up".

Please don't ever tend to seek for the reason to cause break-up.

Because he/she has thousand of reason to cover up themselves.

Eventually, it turns to disappoint you and you may not want to accept the answer he/she given. 

Please be faithful and being honest to yourself. 

Trust me!

If you ever insisted to reveal the truth, it would surely make your wound more deeper. 

So, why are you given chance to whom not deserve your love to say verbatim to hurts you.

We're born to loved and be loved on earth.

Everyone has its own hard-build self-esteem.

Apparently, it's the most precious things for your own.

For the sake of yourself, don't simply get ruin and kill the self-esteem that you deserve.

If the person who don't deserve the best of you,

softly let it go and slowly it would faded away.

Of course, words are thousand times easy than an actions.

Trust yourself.

You can do it with the faithful.

I truly believed there are cloudy after rainy days!

Every story has its ending, either Happy or Miserably!

The beginning, storyline, climax, peak and the ending.

Throughout processing of Love,  it's depend on how you perceive it as story.

Even though your love story may not be the way you want/desire ,

you can ever color/decorate/renovate it as a wonderful experience in your life.

If he/she doesn't stay for you,

at least you own the piece of sky that only belongs to both of you.

It's an exclusive present which you puzzle the memory for both of you. 

If he/she doesn't live for you,

pray the best for her/him,

lightning up/color up your beautiful life. 

Because...

everyone of us has been experienced it.

There are thousand of ways to release your pressure and feeling.

As long as you are happy of doing it. 

- It's special dedicated to the people who are struggled in this moment.-

Light-up Your life

"Whenever you're in conflict with someone,

there is one factor that can make the difference 

between damaging your relationship and deepening it.

That factor is Attitude."

我，自己

我讨厌自己没有主见，

为什么要别人来牵着你的鼻子走；

难道就真的没有自主了吗？

我讨厌自己没有独立，

为什么硬要依赖着别人的身上，

最后受伤的还是自己，

我讨厌自己没有方向，

为什么要别人告诉前路应该怎么走，

自己的天空应该由自己去逆造吧，

我讨厌自己没有坚强，

为什么跌倒了不会自己爬起来，

而需要别人的安慰与扶持，

我讨厌自己没有品格，

为什么在意别人说自己的不是，

不需要介意别人的批评，

我讨厌自己没有安全感，

为什么要精神寄托在他人身上，

自己什么就不是了吗？

终究到底，

我是为谁而活？

是为了自己还是为人而活？

小心情，小述说

“不管遇到什么事情，只要笑一笑，没什么大不了！”

Fei Mao Bday + Bowling

Happy 25 th Birthday to Fei Mao!

We had a simple dinner with the whole gang of Combo at a restaurant at Paramount.

Wooo.hoooo!

He treated us for the dinner!

Everyone is here! ♥

Muahahaha!

Thank you very much ya!

After dinner,

we went to 1 Utama for bowling!

Bowling is one of the activity of Combo!

Wooohoooo Combo!

--- Happy Birthday ---

"A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart, 

and can sing it back to you when you have forgotten the words."  

by Donna Roberts

No expectation ; No disappointment

She truly believe that "No expectation, No disappointment"

She expects something from him but it has never comes. 

So is he too, She guess.

Consequently turn into disappointment. 

He don't understand how she wish to be treated that way.

But then, he failed to fulfill her needs.

She was sick of told him by that way.

He was bored to the same conversation too.

She has emphasized it to him many times.

Just the matter he don't take it, so is she, She guess.

There are still long journey to go though. 

--- Ms.Lai Kuan ---

( It has to be learn throughout the life )

10.10.10 The Perfect Day for Joe & Esther

First and foremost, Congratulations to Joe Ang and Esther Tan,
 the New Spouse of the Combo!

They're quite young actually, both of them are only 24-25 years old.

Finally, the day has come to them to remove the status of "bachelors". 

They're so happy and we're happy for them too!

"10.10.10" is the day for only both of us!

It's a special date which hundreds of couple being engagements and held wedding ceremony.

Everybody blessed the new spouses and the Gods too!

Everybody to be witness the special occasion with enthusiasm and the strong passionate.

Esther Tan & Joe Ang ♥

 Congratulations ! ♥

 Us with the bride and groom ! ♥

 Handsome boy with Me ♥

 Used to be 4 of Us ♥

( But now is getting more of girls in Combo )

 The Combo Guys ♥

 The Combo Girls ♥

 Girls with the Bridegroom ♥

 Girls with the pretty Bride ♥

Fatty with me ♥

Everyone was so "happening" and high on the wedding ceremony.

Yummmmmmmmmmmm....Seng.............................!!!

The words that used frequently on the ceremony and make it happening!

Some of them may even get drunk.

It was really a marvelous night to everyone of Us! 

Guess who will be the next???

Muahahaha!!!

*****

" A happy man marries the girl he loves; a happier man loves the girl he marries."

[MV] Hebe - 寂寞寂寞就好

It's her new released song!

Like the melody so much.

It's very nice song though. 

Just wanted to share with everyone.

Hope you guys like it and support the brand new "Hebe".

--- Waiting the day to come; Rock ---

( Muahahaha ! )

She's with Bob Hair

She is with the Bob Hair for October, 2010

with Copper Brown.

This is what she used to be with her short hair.

She desired so much for long hair, 

but the day would never comes

and friends of mine said it doesn't suit me though.

LoL...

She is dress up with Minnie T-shirt

which brought from her Little Man 
@ Disneyland, Hong Kong.
She got souvenirs from him...
Minnie Cap and Minnie T-shirt.


Muahahaha! Thank you, dear!

( It's not really clear actually. )

 It's her, Lai Kuan with Bob Hair.

 With Copper Brown

( Indeed, she want more light of Copper Brown.LoL )

 ;D

Rachel ; Lai Kuan

On the coming Sunday she will be attending friend's wedding dinner at Kota Kemuning.

And so excited to being "zhi mui" this time.

Hohoho!!!

Can't wait the days to come.

With all the Combo!

Wooooohooooo!

Congrats to Hock Seng and Esther,

 being the first bride and bride-groom of Combo at

♥ 10.10.2010 ♥


*****
--- Let us celebrate the occasion with wine and sweet words ---
by Plautus