错过...的时机

放弃。。应该还是不应该？选择因人而异。

比如说，一个小男子苦追了小女孩一段日子，也曾给了对方三次机会，足足三次机会，最后还是没有达成协议.小男孩叮咛着自己,事不过三,不会再让自己受尽委屈。经过无数的伤痛之后，小男孩还是心灰意冷的放弃这段感情纵使小女孩最后还是答应了。爱情需要即时，下一秒都变成历史了。当你错过了优惠期限，自然而然你手上的优惠券也不能兑现，都已经过期了。过期的优惠券也没有了它特订的意义，也不如一张废纸。不如说爱情是在有效日期之内享有，过期以后就是后过自负了。这小男孩的决定并没有错，错在于时间的交差和天意弄人。机会是给了有心人，可是结果往往就不是happy ending。

曰：当爱情和你敲门时，你没能及时迎接，幸福就与你插肩而过。😂

Goodbye 2014

It's been a great year! Thank you for being a part of it!

Whatever happened in the past, always forgive and forget despite the bad memories you've collected this year. Move forward and create a new memory with those you love or with love. Life is too short to be blamed and complained. The dark sides are always triggering and alarming you, keep yourself with positive strength, open up your eye and heart to accept it utterly.

Embrace your new year with full of loves and let go those memory that make you tremendously despair or disappointment. Stay positive and optimistic are always the top priority in life no matters how bad the situation. Be blessed that I've walk through another end of year and it's so great to take a deep breath to start a new journey again. Take a tour at the highs and lows, at the ups and downs, at the bits and pieces, you're actually grow a little mature each year.

Thank you for those who taking effort for making your way to my life even though is a short period of time, it wouldn't be any happier without your attendance. People always comes and goes and playing different role in your life, the people who stay always matters the most. 

New resolution of the coming year, the most simple resolution is the most difficult to achieve, most of the time. LOL. 

However, let sweep away the dirts or smells of 2014 and put on whatever fragrance that make you fresh on 2015, the scent of 2015 will be way excited. 

Thanks 2014! Welcome 2015! 

人 字

人之所以会心累就是常常徘徊在坚持和放弃之间的举棋不定；
人之所以会痛苦，就是追求的太多；
人之所以不快乐，就是计较的太多；
人之所以会烦恼，就是记性太好，该记的，不该记的都会留在记忆里。
其实痛苦不是别人带给你的，
而是你自己的修养不够，学会放下，别让自己活得太累。

Many thoughts in my minds

我很努力的试着做我喜欢的那个自己，不管有多少的反对意见，可是却偏偏成为了那个我最憎厌的自己，真是啼笑皆非!

既来之，则安之。

可以吗？

To be the individual that I've admired the most, I endeavored myself by putting effort to be one of them regardless of the objection raised along the way. I've been turned it to a deaf ear. Eventually, it turn out to be the one who most irritating in my life. Sarcastic, isn't it? 

人就是这样

每次都想把心里的话一文一笔的描述出来，可是头脑就是不灵活，不晓得该从何说起呢？

人就是这样，给自己堆满所谓情有可原的借口，一次又一次地泛滥自己给予的烂借口。
人就是这样，说好的约定到后来还是赴不了约，把原本说好的约定期限无止境地延长。
人就是这样，明明你已经拥有世界上最要好的，可是还是不断疯狂去寻寻觅觅更好的。
人就是这样，尽管是你曾经或现在即将拥有的，它的价值会随着你放大近百倍而欢喜。
人就是这样，也只是朝着自己想要的方向前进，却忽略对方给予你无数的迁就与忍让。
人就是这样，让你依靠的肩膀却忽冷忽热相待，却盲目地投怀送抱于不曾属于你的人。
人就是这样，幸福洋溢的时候把幸福挂在嘴边，失意的模样不说都把情绪横挂在脸上。
人就是这样，喜欢把别人的喜怒哀乐当作回事，却不晓得别人总是把你当成笑柄看待。
人就是这样，己所不欲勿施于人道理人人晓得，真正去摸索当中含义的却是寥寥无人。
人就是这样，要执著于事情的是与非或对与错，却狠狠漠视执著前那份难能可贵的情。

我们人，就是这样了。

人的心态就是最大的主人翁。

不管从前，现在或者未来，我都坚信这句话的含义。

A Lesson to be Learned

I told myself that there are thousand reasons being happy. Make a new friend is happy; sing your favorite song at ktv is fun; a simple dining with loves make your day; an family outing make you feel so great; having a healthy body and minds are grateful; and the most important is you're breathing and blogging now are super awesome and lucky! Every single things could light up your day regardless who you are. Thus, there are no others reason not to smile and laugh!

Why would I feeling bumpy all this while? It's extremely silly! The best way to heal is to ignore. Ignorance is not encourage but to certain extend, it should have applied on such situation. I swear that I would never ever do that again for the sake of myself. We'll always ignored the good advises given by friends, best friend or intimate friend and keep your ears open to the stranger.

In fact, we don't really take their advise seriously until things happened eventually. It usually known as "REGRET". But what have been happened for the past, you would not able to change it anyhow. In addition, it's always your choice to make thing happen either happily or miserably. You're the manipulator of the whole event, you allowed things happen beyond your control without knowing to avoid it. Apparently, it means that you do not provide solutions immediately when it's alarming even though it's a signal indication to ask for assistance. Yet, you're actually triggering the alarm. "Regret" is not the appropriate word to describe the whole story.

Therefore, there are no ways to yell louder or keep complaining about it. If they did so, only people who is low IQ. This is because you made the wrong mistake and decision. You have to bear with it entirely without regretting your mistake you've just made. Life is full of loads of experiences and a series of challenges! You fall, you collapse, you awake and you realize that. Not being late to understand it all, because human being often make mistakes. That's not important though, what's matter most is to learn utterly.

Your wound can be cured and recovered from time to time but the scar will last eternally in your heart! Every time you touch it, it will remind you the past experience. Perhaps it's a good reminder for you. Thanks for giving me such a good experience. A well lesson to be learned in life indeed.

Experienced regretful in your life would make you to be a better person. I believed! At least you have learned.

Let's end this topic with a beautiful yet heart-warmth song.

All of Me

Flash back of 2013

The year of 2013 is going to an end in 2 days. What have you done in this year? Wow,it's too much to be shared in my minds. Hmm... How would you summarized it in words form? For me, it would be a challenging yet experience-gained years as well as good people surrounded and taught me very well indeed. I would like to extend my sincere gratitude to you and you and you who would be there for me throughout the up and down, sweet and bitter and the bits and pieces.

To make it simple and understanding, below are the pictures and moments which have been sorted out and at last to be selected to-be featuring on album. A spectacular moments which urge to be remembered in memory, minds and also heart.

I'm sincerely honor to be very blissful and blessed with the awesome people I've with me. 

JANUARY 2013 - Party & Celebration

FEBRUARY 2013 - Love & Romance

Missing photo on March to September as all the pictures stored in my computers. Hahaha... So, jump to a preview on October to December. Hehe! Of course, there're lots of fun-filled activity and event happened between these months. 

OCTOBER 2013 - Getaway

NOVEMBER 2013 - Good Times

DECEMBER 2013 - Season of Joy

Take a deep breath of fresh air...from stages of arranging to selecting of photo, all kinds of feeling have been popped in my minds and calling me to cherish the moments. Couldn't be denied that one of the best feeling was viewing the old times photo repeatedly. It's not only reminds you of the good times you've been through, but also light up your day instantly. Every single photo interprets its feeling and details, rich in content and reminds you the best moment you would have and probably it would last for years. How those photos heart-filled you? Perhaps happy?funny?awkward?surprised?joyful? These will be good despite negative feeling/impact has hitten you as the poor things had over. 

Let's welcoming the brand new year of 2014 with eager anticipation and great accomplishment.

Keep yourself #positive mind and #optimistic, therefore #good luck will always be with you no matter how tough life would be. 

Make your pledge now and set the resolutions in year 2014 and achieve it accordingly to be a better you.

#I'm ready in 2014! ;)