Little Thoughts

柔弱注定给人瞧不起，只有学会坚强。
坚强不一定是坚持，坚持不一定是对的。
只有你自己清楚知道。
是天堂，还是地狱，一个抉择只是一线之间。

Weaknesses are the barriers to the journey of succeed.
In order to achieve your dream, overcome the unnecessary obstacles.
Success come only with patient and persistent at the right time.
It will never be if you ever make the wrong decision.
Think once, think twice and think triple before a single decision made.
One steps forward could lead you to the right track as well as the wrong path.

小摩擦

在人海茫茫之中，

相识是一种奇妙的缘分。

两个不同背景的人能走在一起，

已经是一件非常幸福洋溢的事。

难免会有一些些不愉快的事情。

可是，

少见面摩擦是否会减少？

可能性比较渺小吧？

无论如何，还是会有一点点的小摩擦。

别无视这些“小摩擦”，

它会变成以后的绊脚石。

今天的“小摩擦”，很可能是未来的“导火线”。

品德

偶然间，在博客上看见有这么的一段话，

“贪污虚荣是女人的天质”，

说的一点也没错，

这就是女人的天资吧！

我也不例外；别说你没有！

可能你觉得所谓的“贪污虚荣”

意味着贪图荣华富贵，驾名牌房车，享受无忧无虑，自由自在的生活，钱更是万能。

钱确实是万能，但别轻视别人得能力。

你手提名牌包包，穿得衣裳也是名牌，那又怎样？

这还不是意味着你是贪污虚荣之人吗？

谁不喜欢名牌啊？

我个人也喜欢极了！还看中很多款式呢，只是价钱很昂贵呀！

每个人都有一样的倾向，只不过看的是有没有品德而已。

有些人一身名牌却狗眼看人低，这就是你应有的品德吗？

那真是烂透了！

你再怎样富裕也别轻视别人呀。

别戴有色眼镜去观看别人，别讽刺，嘲笑他人。

自以为一副很了不起的模样，很高尚吗？

是不是你身穿名牌就比别人高尚了很多？

的确，以你的一身打扮是很高尚，

可惜你被大大扣分了。

所谓的一点点品德都没有。

身穿名牌也只是一个很亮眼的贝壳，可是里面确是烂透的。

做人凡是不要那么绝，留有一点余地吧！

非常好的一句话：“山水有相逢”。

可惜不是“你”

我受委屈，你撑着我；

我被欺负，你呵护我；

我遇挫折，你教诲我；

可惜不是“你”。

遗失の自己

发觉，渐渐地迷失自我了,

还是，依然的那个我呢？

无时无刻都很在意别人的眼光，

不管是贬义的还是褒义的，

我都非常地在乎！

可是，这样的我并不开心。

为了满足、迁就、讨好别人，

让自己成为了别人的附属品。

这样的我觉得很累，

希望自己远离不必要的忧虑。

还是自由自在的做自己比较实在！

活出自我才是真正我渴望的！

♥ 加油! 加油! ♥

因为是兔年的关系，个人觉得可爱极了。

大家一起加油打气吧！

Words

I was paused for a while, that the words you gave me.

* Take a deep breathe *

I went deeply to its contents，

and figure it out that really meant to me!

If the day approaches us,

I really don't know what reaction I would have?

I guess it will be worse than any expectation.

By the ways, the words ♥ Appreciate ♥ that has been printed on my "Dictionaries"

which I think it's play a vital role in my life under any circumstances.

Try your best and place your strength to achieve everything that you wish to have.

A simple words may brings you laughter or happiness, 

reversely, a simple words may cause you dismay and disappointment too.

Therefore, please watch your words if you don't tend to hurt people.

If you're doing so, unless you're going to hurt the one you love. 

Because, you might not know the consequences of "wording" may cause.

Yet, misunderstanding, miscommunication  or conflict happened definitely because of the "words" that you gave to people. 

♥ My Artwork ! ♥

明白

有时候，我真的不明白

放工以后，真的那么累吗？

连一封信息都没有更何况是一通电话？

是你习惯了一个人

还是我打扰你的世界呢？

只是一封信息或一通电话

就足以令我心满意足。

可是

你却让我一次又一次地失望，

我的心情又跌倒谷底了。

我明白，工作真的很忙碌，

可是

你是否明白我的感受呢？

忙碌也希望你问候，关心我，

而不是把我冷落一旁，

我想。。。

你从来就不会在乎。

一而再再而三地情况下，

令我逐渐习惯了。

因为

我对你不抱着任何的欲望了

我偶尔也会累了。

Love Like There Is No More Tomorrow

I read an article from one of my Facebook's friend list.

The sentence tempted me so much and I don't know why and I do paused for a second.

It was written as

 "Don't marry the person you think you can live with;

 marry only the individual you think you can't live without."

What's so interesting about the sentence?

Certainly, it was meaningful, wasn't it?

The first reaction I was like...Aww...It's so TRUE!

Marry a person that you can't live without is so romantic and love each other like there's no tomorrow.

But it's so subjective.

I believed there are peoples with different thoughts too.

Anyway, I just want to share with you guys!

For me, you can marry a person that can live happily together and surely he is the one and only who you can't live without.

It doesn't matter the person you can live with or can't live without as long as both of you are belongs together.

As long as you live happily with him;

As long as you love him more than yesterday;

Because...

"The most happiness things in life is to loved and be loved"

Hence, the matter of can live or can't live without is no longer important.

"Love each other like there is no more tomorrow;

 enjoy and treasure every seconds, minutes, and hours that we have."

Move on!

There are always thousand of excuses for a "break-up".

Please don't ever tend to seek for the reason to cause break-up.

Because he/she has thousand of reason to cover up themselves.

Eventually, it turns to disappoint you and you may not want to accept the answer he/she given. 

Please be faithful and being honest to yourself. 

Trust me!

If you ever insisted to reveal the truth, it would surely make your wound more deeper. 

So, why are you given chance to whom not deserve your love to say verbatim to hurts you.

We're born to loved and be loved on earth.

Everyone has its own hard-build self-esteem.

Apparently, it's the most precious things for your own.

For the sake of yourself, don't simply get ruin and kill the self-esteem that you deserve.

If the person who don't deserve the best of you,

softly let it go and slowly it would faded away.

Of course, words are thousand times easy than an actions.

Trust yourself.

You can do it with the faithful.

I truly believed there are cloudy after rainy days!

Every story has its ending, either Happy or Miserably!

The beginning, storyline, climax, peak and the ending.

Throughout processing of Love,  it's depend on how you perceive it as story.

Even though your love story may not be the way you want/desire ,

you can ever color/decorate/renovate it as a wonderful experience in your life.

If he/she doesn't stay for you,

at least you own the piece of sky that only belongs to both of you.

It's an exclusive present which you puzzle the memory for both of you. 

If he/she doesn't live for you,

pray the best for her/him,

lightning up/color up your beautiful life. 

Because...

everyone of us has been experienced it.

There are thousand of ways to release your pressure and feeling.

As long as you are happy of doing it. 

- It's special dedicated to the people who are struggled in this moment.-

Light-up Your life

"Whenever you're in conflict with someone,

there is one factor that can make the difference 

between damaging your relationship and deepening it.

That factor is Attitude."

我，自己

我讨厌自己没有主见，

为什么要别人来牵着你的鼻子走；

难道就真的没有自主了吗？

我讨厌自己没有独立，

为什么硬要依赖着别人的身上，

最后受伤的还是自己，

我讨厌自己没有方向，

为什么要别人告诉前路应该怎么走，

自己的天空应该由自己去逆造吧，

我讨厌自己没有坚强，

为什么跌倒了不会自己爬起来，

而需要别人的安慰与扶持，

我讨厌自己没有品格，

为什么在意别人说自己的不是，

不需要介意别人的批评，

我讨厌自己没有安全感，

为什么要精神寄托在他人身上，

自己什么就不是了吗？

终究到底，

我是为谁而活？

是为了自己还是为人而活？

小心情，小述说

“不管遇到什么事情，只要笑一笑，没什么大不了！”

What is your interest and strength?

The new semester is began!

The first day went to class, three of us are remained for this whole semester!

How terrible it is?Sigh! ( Out of mood )

Somehow, Life needs to carry on even there's only three of us.

Fortunately,

there is still one subject with 9 of us.

I prefer the life with you guys!

We've been through the "joy and pain" all together.

Share the happiness, assignment-ness, and exam-ness together.

It's glad and proud to be a part of the groups. 

( Friends are always comes and goes! )

A very fine morning day,

lecturer asked " what is your strength and interest?"

Without any hesitation, 

"I shake my head".

How shameful and embarrassed am I?

Don't even know what is my strength and interest?

After that, 

I found so hard of figuring it out.

I like bloggers!

( But it doesn't help you to earn money.)

I like reading!

( But not the content of politics issues. )

I actually don't know about my interest.

So miserable to me!

Maybe I need to be more exposure to others,

so that I can slowly figure out what interest me indeed.

( But no doubt, I'm passionate to learn.LoL! )

I thought of joining somethings

like Fitness, Yoga or some interesting classes.

Make-up?Hair Stylish?Beauty?Manicure?

I like it but just not my type though.

I prefer run a business if I could ever own a business.

Once I figure it out,

I will register and join the class.

( Hope it isn't too late for me! Hahaha! )

I hope to brighter up my Life

with family, friendship, career, and so fourth.

How about you, yourself?

Have you ever asked yourself?

Don't be like one of me.

It's a miserable definitely. 

----- Good Luck! -----

( raedym ,hcumosuoyssiM )

女人 ♥

“情绪化”是女人的天质，

女人，总爱把情绪上演，

偶尔喜，偶尔忧，

让你不知所措；

“无思乱想”为其二，

女人，总爱想有的没得，

偶尔 “糖痴豆”，偶尔 “水抠油”，

让你神魂颠倒；

“耍别扭”为其三，

女人，总爱对爱人别扭，

偶尔可爱，偶尔可悲，

让你透不过气；

“撒娇”为其四，

女人，总爱撒娇撒可爱，

偶尔温柔，偶尔生气 ，

让你无法抗拒；

“蛮不讲理”为其五，

女人，总爱刁蛮即自我，

偶尔“型”，偶尔“烦”，

让你精神兮兮；

“无理取闹”为其六，

女人，总爱把火种点燃，

偶尔情趣，偶尔厌倦，

让你又爱又恨。

女人

总喜欢自己生闷气；

只因

期望自己的爱人会哄哄自己，

被呵护，被重视，被青睐，

但愿如此。

无论如何，

只要“她”是你的生命中的最爱，

请好好呵护，爱护，重视“她”，

也好让她知道你的心意

因为

女人都想听真心的

“甜言蜜语”

  

（uoyssiM )

Struggle

Finally, I sticked to the mind that I didn't join Paint Ball

although I wish to join so badly.

It's because that few of my friends can't manage to make it,

so the plan has been postpone.

Anyway, I'm stuck on my mind now!

" Arhhh!!!! Am confused, no idea which should I pick instead?", she yelled for HELP.

My feeling right now like struggling in the middle of the "triangle road" and definitely no idea which way to go?

Sigh!

Lost! Lost! Lost!

LoL..but don't get misunderstand, just the matter of choosing my Mr. Right Camera.

I had owned a Olympus digital camera since a years ago which is my 21th Birthday's pressie!

Unfortunately, it was no longer function at all as the screen was totally blank.

If under repair it costs at least 300 bucks for the screen only,

then why not get a new one instead?

Erm..am a kind of people who loves to capture all the memorable photo with family, love one, friends and so fourth. 

Therefore, without a camera for me is just a disaster! LoL!

 The camera was build-in on the cellphones,

somehow, I don't really like it even though it's quite convenience sometimes.

I want a proper camera with those specifications that I wants.

Initially, been thinking of owning a Digital Single Lens Reflex ( DSLR ), 

but soon and later I changed my mind.

As it's not convenience to me,

 wherever I go I have to bring along and hang on my neck with hand carry a big cases and

 the problem is those lens are so freaking expensive.

Hence, I've rather pick up a digital camera.

Here are the few options makes me ups and downs.

I've chosen the Sony DSC-W380, RM999 for the first place, 

I've fall in love with it with the first sight,

but HIM don't really like it.

His words makes my decision changes. 

I'm not determination at all! LoL!

So, I've found a few model,

Here to go...

Sony DSC-WX1, Sony DSC-TX1 and Olympus TOUGH-8010

Sony DSC-TX1, RM1399

Sony DSC-WX1, RM999

Olympus TOUGH-8010, RM1199

LoL..I'm not doing the comparison here, it's so much of detail.

The Sony comes with normal specifications, 14 MP, Panorama, Handheld Twilight, Variety of Scene.

However, the Olympus comes with Waterproof, Shockproof, Freeze proof, Image Stabilization and Intelligent Auto Mode. 

Each of the camera has their own specifications and features.

What makes me struggling is I prefer the outlook of Sony and also the specifications of Olympus. 

...ZzzzZzzzZ...

I've no idea which is the best for me.

Anyone can give me any suggestion? 

--- Stay Tune ---

Update what's I would purchase soon and later.