明白

有时候，我真的不明白

放工以后，真的那么累吗？

连一封信息都没有更何况是一通电话？

是你习惯了一个人

还是我打扰你的世界呢？

只是一封信息或一通电话

就足以令我心满意足。

可是

你却让我一次又一次地失望，

我的心情又跌倒谷底了。

我明白，工作真的很忙碌，

可是

你是否明白我的感受呢？

忙碌也希望你问候，关心我，

而不是把我冷落一旁，

我想。。。

你从来就不会在乎。

一而再再而三地情况下，

令我逐渐习惯了。

因为

我对你不抱着任何的欲望了

我偶尔也会累了。

Love Like There Is No More Tomorrow

I read an article from one of my Facebook's friend list.

The sentence tempted me so much and I don't know why and I do paused for a second.

It was written as

 "Don't marry the person you think you can live with;

 marry only the individual you think you can't live without."

What's so interesting about the sentence?

Certainly, it was meaningful, wasn't it?

The first reaction I was like...Aww...It's so TRUE!

Marry a person that you can't live without is so romantic and love each other like there's no tomorrow.

But it's so subjective.

I believed there are peoples with different thoughts too.

Anyway, I just want to share with you guys!

For me, you can marry a person that can live happily together and surely he is the one and only who you can't live without.

It doesn't matter the person you can live with or can't live without as long as both of you are belongs together.

As long as you live happily with him;

As long as you love him more than yesterday;

Because...

"The most happiness things in life is to loved and be loved"

Hence, the matter of can live or can't live without is no longer important.

"Love each other like there is no more tomorrow;

 enjoy and treasure every seconds, minutes, and hours that we have."

Move on!

There are always thousand of excuses for a "break-up".

Please don't ever tend to seek for the reason to cause break-up.

Because he/she has thousand of reason to cover up themselves.

Eventually, it turns to disappoint you and you may not want to accept the answer he/she given. 

Please be faithful and being honest to yourself. 

Trust me!

If you ever insisted to reveal the truth, it would surely make your wound more deeper. 

So, why are you given chance to whom not deserve your love to say verbatim to hurts you.

We're born to loved and be loved on earth.

Everyone has its own hard-build self-esteem.

Apparently, it's the most precious things for your own.

For the sake of yourself, don't simply get ruin and kill the self-esteem that you deserve.

If the person who don't deserve the best of you,

softly let it go and slowly it would faded away.

Of course, words are thousand times easy than an actions.

Trust yourself.

You can do it with the faithful.

I truly believed there are cloudy after rainy days!

Every story has its ending, either Happy or Miserably!

The beginning, storyline, climax, peak and the ending.

Throughout processing of Love,  it's depend on how you perceive it as story.

Even though your love story may not be the way you want/desire ,

you can ever color/decorate/renovate it as a wonderful experience in your life.

If he/she doesn't stay for you,

at least you own the piece of sky that only belongs to both of you.

It's an exclusive present which you puzzle the memory for both of you. 

If he/she doesn't live for you,

pray the best for her/him,

lightning up/color up your beautiful life. 

Because...

everyone of us has been experienced it.

There are thousand of ways to release your pressure and feeling.

As long as you are happy of doing it. 

- It's special dedicated to the people who are struggled in this moment.-

Light-up Your life

"Whenever you're in conflict with someone,

there is one factor that can make the difference 

between damaging your relationship and deepening it.

That factor is Attitude."

我，自己

我讨厌自己没有主见，

为什么要别人来牵着你的鼻子走；

难道就真的没有自主了吗？

我讨厌自己没有独立，

为什么硬要依赖着别人的身上，

最后受伤的还是自己，

我讨厌自己没有方向，

为什么要别人告诉前路应该怎么走，

自己的天空应该由自己去逆造吧，

我讨厌自己没有坚强，

为什么跌倒了不会自己爬起来，

而需要别人的安慰与扶持，

我讨厌自己没有品格，

为什么在意别人说自己的不是，

不需要介意别人的批评，

我讨厌自己没有安全感，

为什么要精神寄托在他人身上，

自己什么就不是了吗？

终究到底，

我是为谁而活？

是为了自己还是为人而活？

小心情，小述说

“不管遇到什么事情，只要笑一笑，没什么大不了！”

Fei Mao Bday + Bowling

Happy 25 th Birthday to Fei Mao!

We had a simple dinner with the whole gang of Combo at a restaurant at Paramount.

Wooo.hoooo!

He treated us for the dinner!

Everyone is here! ♥

Muahahaha!

Thank you very much ya!

After dinner,

we went to 1 Utama for bowling!

Bowling is one of the activity of Combo!

Wooohoooo Combo!

--- Happy Birthday ---

"A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart, 

and can sing it back to you when you have forgotten the words."  

by Donna Roberts

No expectation ; No disappointment

She truly believe that "No expectation, No disappointment"

She expects something from him but it has never comes. 

So is he too, She guess.

Consequently turn into disappointment. 

He don't understand how she wish to be treated that way.

But then, he failed to fulfill her needs.

She was sick of told him by that way.

He was bored to the same conversation too.

She has emphasized it to him many times.

Just the matter he don't take it, so is she, She guess.

There are still long journey to go though. 

--- Ms.Lai Kuan ---

( It has to be learn throughout the life )

10.10.10 The Perfect Day for Joe & Esther

First and foremost, Congratulations to Joe Ang and Esther Tan,
 the New Spouse of the Combo!

They're quite young actually, both of them are only 24-25 years old.

Finally, the day has come to them to remove the status of "bachelors". 

They're so happy and we're happy for them too!

"10.10.10" is the day for only both of us!

It's a special date which hundreds of couple being engagements and held wedding ceremony.

Everybody blessed the new spouses and the Gods too!

Everybody to be witness the special occasion with enthusiasm and the strong passionate.

Esther Tan & Joe Ang ♥

 Congratulations ! ♥

 Us with the bride and groom ! ♥

 Handsome boy with Me ♥

 Used to be 4 of Us ♥

( But now is getting more of girls in Combo )

 The Combo Guys ♥

 The Combo Girls ♥

 Girls with the Bridegroom ♥

 Girls with the pretty Bride ♥

Fatty with me ♥

Everyone was so "happening" and high on the wedding ceremony.

Yummmmmmmmmmmm....Seng.............................!!!

The words that used frequently on the ceremony and make it happening!

Some of them may even get drunk.

It was really a marvelous night to everyone of Us! 

Guess who will be the next???

Muahahaha!!!

*****

" A happy man marries the girl he loves; a happier man loves the girl he marries."

[MV] Hebe - 寂寞寂寞就好

It's her new released song!

Like the melody so much.

It's very nice song though. 

Just wanted to share with everyone.

Hope you guys like it and support the brand new "Hebe".

--- Waiting the day to come; Rock ---

( Muahahaha ! )

She's with Bob Hair

She is with the Bob Hair for October, 2010

with Copper Brown.

This is what she used to be with her short hair.

She desired so much for long hair, 

but the day would never comes

and friends of mine said it doesn't suit me though.

LoL...

She is dress up with Minnie T-shirt

which brought from her Little Man 
@ Disneyland, Hong Kong.
She got souvenirs from him...
Minnie Cap and Minnie T-shirt.


Muahahaha! Thank you, dear!

( It's not really clear actually. )

 It's her, Lai Kuan with Bob Hair.

 With Copper Brown

( Indeed, she want more light of Copper Brown.LoL )

 ;D

Rachel ; Lai Kuan

On the coming Sunday she will be attending friend's wedding dinner at Kota Kemuning.

And so excited to being "zhi mui" this time.

Hohoho!!!

Can't wait the days to come.

With all the Combo!

Wooooohooooo!

Congrats to Hock Seng and Esther,

 being the first bride and bride-groom of Combo at

♥ 10.10.2010 ♥


*****
--- Let us celebrate the occasion with wine and sweet words ---
by Plautus

For Him, Kean Seng; For Her, Ashley

Happy Belated to Tan Kean Seng,

my old times buddy.

All the best to you!!!

Had dinner at D's restaurant at SS2,

somewhere behind the Durian's stall.

Had a great night with Kelvin, Gee, Joey, Carmen, Kah Wah and Kean Seng.

 Happy Birthday...

Fried Rice with Petai 

Slice of Cake 

Me and Kean Seng 

Thai Fish with Rice 

 Carbonara with Dory Fish

Spicy Tom Yam Meehun 

*********

Happy Birthday in Advance to Ashley Kok,

my old times buddy too!

Have a blast day in Singapore.

We gave her a little surprised at Full House, Sunway Giza

with our primary friends.

Hohoho!!!

--- Ashley --- 

 @ Full House

A unnamed facial expression..LoL.. 

 The Guys of the day!

 The Girls of the day!

Happy Birthday to my dear, Ashley Kok ♥

 Kawaii yeah !

 Ermm..Nothing for Fun! ♥

 LoL! For Fun too! ♥

Everyone of Us! I like this super much!  ♥

The adorable Girls! ♥


[ What an enjoyable night with friends ]
--- Friends is always Eternity ---

New Fabric Spray On Top

Can you believe it anot?

I found something new here!

Do check it out!

LoL..For sure make your jaw drop a little while.

Here we go!

It's a new technology comes to the market next year.

Goes to....

--- Fabric Spray on Top ---

It's just easy and creative ever!

Just spray on your body based on your Nice body shape.

And it's wear-able.

It's just a fabric and washable. ( clothing materials )

For more information, please take a look on...

http://hkblog.xanga.com

By the way, today was a Family outing day!

Am went to visit my aunt who stay at Puchong with my MoM and cousins.

What I realized was that she actually has been torturing from illness few years ago.

Why did I say so?

Indeed, she was just lie down on the bed all this while.

She don't even manage to have any conversations and movements.

The worst was she only drink milk all this time, no foods, fruits and beverage!

But only Milk! ( Haiks...)

It's just like paralyzed!

Even we said Hi to her,

from her eyes,

I think she does recognized us.

Just that she couldn't move 

and she has no facial expression at all!

It's just miserable!

Life is really unpredictable! 

It doesn't go how you wish to go sometimes.

She was just an ordinary women.

A women who marry her husband and got her children as well as her grandchildren.

A women who's our Aunt and used to play with us when I was young.

On her middle age, she got stroke soon and later make today's her!

It's just miserable and sympathetic to her.

We're "handless" to her and hope she is doing fine.

--- Am waiting for him back from Macau ---

( will pick him up soon and get my souvenirs! Hohoho! )

--- Don't do and make things that regret you forever ---

What is your interest and strength?

The new semester is began!

The first day went to class, three of us are remained for this whole semester!

How terrible it is?Sigh! ( Out of mood )

Somehow, Life needs to carry on even there's only three of us.

Fortunately,

there is still one subject with 9 of us.

I prefer the life with you guys!

We've been through the "joy and pain" all together.

Share the happiness, assignment-ness, and exam-ness together.

It's glad and proud to be a part of the groups. 

( Friends are always comes and goes! )

A very fine morning day,

lecturer asked " what is your strength and interest?"

Without any hesitation, 

"I shake my head".

How shameful and embarrassed am I?

Don't even know what is my strength and interest?

After that, 

I found so hard of figuring it out.

I like bloggers!

( But it doesn't help you to earn money.)

I like reading!

( But not the content of politics issues. )

I actually don't know about my interest.

So miserable to me!

Maybe I need to be more exposure to others,

so that I can slowly figure out what interest me indeed.

( But no doubt, I'm passionate to learn.LoL! )

I thought of joining somethings

like Fitness, Yoga or some interesting classes.

Make-up?Hair Stylish?Beauty?Manicure?

I like it but just not my type though.

I prefer run a business if I could ever own a business.

Once I figure it out,

I will register and join the class.

( Hope it isn't too late for me! Hahaha! )

I hope to brighter up my Life

with family, friendship, career, and so fourth.

How about you, yourself?

Have you ever asked yourself?

Don't be like one of me.

It's a miserable definitely. 

----- Good Luck! -----

( raedym ,hcumosuoyssiM )

女人 ♥

“情绪化”是女人的天质，

女人，总爱把情绪上演，

偶尔喜，偶尔忧，

让你不知所措；

“无思乱想”为其二，

女人，总爱想有的没得，

偶尔 “糖痴豆”，偶尔 “水抠油”，

让你神魂颠倒；

“耍别扭”为其三，

女人，总爱对爱人别扭，

偶尔可爱，偶尔可悲，

让你透不过气；

“撒娇”为其四，

女人，总爱撒娇撒可爱，

偶尔温柔，偶尔生气 ，

让你无法抗拒；

“蛮不讲理”为其五，

女人，总爱刁蛮即自我，

偶尔“型”，偶尔“烦”，

让你精神兮兮；

“无理取闹”为其六，

女人，总爱把火种点燃，

偶尔情趣，偶尔厌倦，

让你又爱又恨。

女人

总喜欢自己生闷气；

只因

期望自己的爱人会哄哄自己，

被呵护，被重视，被青睐，

但愿如此。

无论如何，

只要“她”是你的生命中的最爱，

请好好呵护，爱护，重视“她”，

也好让她知道你的心意

因为

女人都想听真心的

“甜言蜜语”

  

（uoyssiM )

Shame on You!

Sometimes, individual's tolerance have its limitations.

Please don't ever cross the lines.

I am just 

SHAME ON YOU!

My parents being tolerance with you, 

because they don't want to create unwanted argument.

But it doesn't mean you can ever cross the lines. 

If you don't take good care of her,

please get your butt OUT of the house!

The most "hearted" person that I've ever seen. 

I believe the same GOOD destiny

 would definitely goes after you.

Watch out!

I do not need to "curse" you,

but watching you fall on the same GOOD destiny ultimately.

--- What you pay exactly What you get ---

( God is watching Y.O.U! )

Day of Miracle

I named the album as "Day of Miracle" in Facebook.

It is because it carried out a lot of meaning to US!

It's a day of Celebrating Birthday...

It's a day of Meeting of everyone of us...

It's a day of Gathering with each others...

It's a day of Reunion with the Combo Kia!

There are 18 attendants of us to the Meeting!

Guess what???

It's the one and only once 18 of us turn up for this special occasion.

Apparently, everyone of us was enjoy immensely with each other.

Although it's a short and quick night,

 ultimately everyone has a great night 

and being an impression days to ALL of us!

I believe it does!

Everything went smoothly and almost flawless,

but the only thing is we all sat separately. 

The large group of people has been assigned into 3 groups.

[ Huh!!! It's so sad, right? ]

Fortunately, it doesn't affect much to us. 

[ Phewww...]

Let the picture tells the story then...

Enjoy !!!

Four of Us [ Mandy, Rachel, Venny, Sin Yee ]

[ The Girls of the Day ]

[ The Guys of the Day ]

[ The Yau Yeng Guys ]

[ The Acting "Kawaii" Guy ]

[ At Puchong Shabu Shabu ]

[ The Girls at Shabu Shabu ]

[ Pointing at the Fei Mao's mole ]

[ And the hers too ]

[ Kawaii neh..=.= ]

[ Never miss any chance to capture! Inside the Lift ]

[ Self Timer on the Big Mirror ]

*Kwung has been blocked by Pig Neng*

[ Happy Birthday !!! ]

[ Weee..Weeee..]

--- Had a Great Night with Everyone ---

[ Muackxxx ]

************

--- Friend comes and goes ---

A True/Real friend would always stay by your side.

--- I Believed ---